Dictionaries aren't too fussed about individual men's hallucinations.

Words mean what they mean. Nothing more. Nothing less.

You're ignoring the aggrieves attitudes of men thinking they're entitled to women's attention, times and bodies.

Us reasserting our own autonomy to prevent being coerced and manipulated by men is NOT a coercion or manipulstion of you men.

You see it that way if you want. No one is forcing you either way.