Confidence is kind of a broad term. What do you mean exactly? Yes, I'd like men to be confident enough to not be up in my grill braying like Eeyore looking for validation. I can't give you that. You need to build your own condidence, preferably in some manner not based off the objectification and dehumanizing sexualization of women. You need to learn to be confident enough in your own sexuality in a healthy, giving manner to not come off as rabid jackels out in public spaces and on dates.