Case and point, pay special attention to what "Deeper Understanding" is saying above.

You're going to have a shelf life with this guy and then he'll be looking for someone else.

He wants you young in order to have 2 to 3 children off your as though it's no longer possible as soon as you hit 25 or 30.

What's been promoted to men over here is the idea that women's fertility tanks after 30 and any offspring will have problems. Since they can't be fussed to get the actual facts and women's reproduction system is disgusting to them, they avoid "older women" because they dont want to get stuck taking care of a defective child.

The rest of us are well aware that certain things play factors in pregnancy outcomes but it's still pretty much a crap shoot. You never know what you're going to get till you get it. A lot of us American "cruel and unempathetic" women have been dumped as soon as we had a special needs child or we ourselves get sick. Female cancer patients are told to expect to be divorced because that's what 30% of them face. They're warned before chemo so their care won't be interrupted to their detriment because hubby disappears.

There's certain language these guys use, when they're that guy. Let's just say, flag on the play here.

You International ladies are going to have to make your decisions for yourselves. That's your right and also your responsibility. We're just saying buyer beware. We're not monsters, the way these dating brokers portray us. We're just like you. We have the same needs, the same hopes, the same desires.

These guys get rejected for good reasons, not flippant ones.

If you think this guy is going to have your back when you're at your absolute most vulnerable, let me invite you to take a stroll through Reddit AITA threads and TikTok; see for yourself what you'll be dealing with.

Don't take my word for it. Don't take the OP's sales pitch as gospel. Go see for yourself.

Choose wisely and buyer beware.