But you don't have to stay where you are and you don't have to hold on to that extravagant lifestyle.

Many of us can reduce expenses in multiple ways and still have a decent life.

You could also form a civil partnership with another woman and raise your kids together. You get most of the tax breaks of a married couple.

Hell. You can even get married in progressive states and countries around the world. Who ever said marriages had to include sex with each other and couldn't be open? Where's that written?