But they don't have the right to direct hostile emotions at women who are innocent bystanders to whatever they're upset about or labor dump handling said emotions onto them because they only want to bother with one setting.

More importantly, women don't have to accept that shit as though it's natural and normal.

You're not children, gentlemen. You shouldn't want or demand to be treated like one as a grown adult, in the fullness of your manhood.

Comprehend that what this author is advocating is not for your benefit. It's for the benedit of lazy women who want to sit on their laurels "resting in their femininity" while you struggle yourself into an early grave, coupled up with dead weight in a pretty package but very much alone.

This is a straightjacket. A yoke to keep you under control and producing for someone else's benefit.

This is gender essentialism or complementarianism; what it's not, is feminism.

Cry if you want and the situation warrants it. Without shame, censure, or reproof. Don't if you don't want. Same with every other emotion. Your emotional expression is not attached to or dependent upon your penis. Well, a few of them are, to some degree. 😜