But that would mean they would have to give up fantasies of control and actually work to keep her interested. To not regret choosing him, in other words.

What kind of crazy are you talking? When they can just go buy a Russian who will be loyal and submit?

You gotta consider the ROI. Russian woman, that $9K is a one time expenditure.

But self improvement? You know how women are, they'll just move the goalposts on you. You're never gonna be good enough. They have too high an opinion of themselves. You'll be paying forever. Might as well flush that money down the toilet for all the good it will do you. There's no actual ROI in self improvement.

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You'll have to excuse me. I've spent some time this past weekend doing some research on the manosphere. I haven't completely detoxed yet.