But that last comment t wasn't criticizing what she said or her behavior. You were criticizing her outlook on life. Thought policing.
Further, it's not her responsibility to be any sort of way as a model for anyone else. She's not responsible for anyone else's behavior or point of view.
People are reaponaible for themselves. She's a talking head on an adult show, not one geared toward children.
Women won't appreciate you infantalizing them either. If that's the best you've got, nobody wants your white knighthood. It's a damn misogyny trap.