But once again, that's not the entire statement and no context is provided.
Also, just because women are not the fuckee in gay porn does not mean that gay porn of the era was not also degrading toward women.
Men in a locker room are degrading toward women. No women are present.
Her husband, as you pointed out likely watched gay porn from that era and he mostly agreed with her....so. ??
Though I confess, after watching a few vids, I have little to no interest in porn. It's boring. And I never saw a single gay porn movie or video from that era.
A better argument would have been lesbian porn, but you didn't consider that at all. Still sloppy. Telling too.