Bullshit. We just use slightly different words and the triggers for them being said are slightly different dynamics.

But the point and the message is all the same: You're unwanted. You're not enough. You're useless. You're doing everything wrong. You're out of line. It's all your fault. You hurt peope. It's all you.

Of all the audacity. You literally pulled this shit on me yesterday in another comment thread.

Let me invite you again to go adopt one of the half million kids in foster care if you think I'm so useless as a mother that if harm the precious, fragile little psyche of some innocent little boy.

Oh. Wait......

Yeah.