Bullshit.

I don't need a study or even "tens of studies" to tell me what it takes to raise a family.

I HAVE ONE. I raised one.

And look at that! Feminism did not prevent me from having one in any way whatsoever. What it did was liberate me to see and evaluate my choices and be able to make them, beyond what somebody else or 'society' planned for me to their benefit and not mine.

But see, I did the reading.

I came to feminism with openness, curiosity, and a willing heart and willing mess to work for something better than the scraps and 2nd skimmings the power structure leaves for people like me.

I came to feminism to learn how to build my own damn table rather than beg at a man's or 'society's'.

I didn't come to feminism selfishly and with entitlement to take and grab for myself, ignorantly, at the expense of others and even my future self.

If that woman had actually done the work, she would not still be playing the part of a spoiled brat who wants you to feel bad for her because she broke her princess tiara.

Make no mistake, feminism has ALWAYS had a burden of toil attached to it. Those who are unwilling to carry that burden should stay in the kiddie pool and not claim to be feminists just to be cool. The adult world is not middle school. There is no, "I was just going along, I didn't mean it" and getting a pass on consequences of selfishness and entitlement. There are no do overs.

Now I have a child who's now a helluva young woman, a loving family that happened under conditions and timing that didn't make a sacrifice of my life, a job that sustains us as I am the primary bread winner, play and creative time, and a full and happy life that has become very good for me (feminism at work) and she has tears and that broken tiara (selfishness at work).

Feminism is not for the weak minded, weak hearted, weak willed, or weak spined.

Feminism is not for the weak. It's for those who want to reject weakness society and others priject onto you.