Biggest problem with short guys is that they have a problem with being short guys.
The biggest problem with tall guys is that they’re often uncomfortable being tall guys or are obnoxious about it.
Tall or short, male lack of confidence leads them to be obnoxious, overbearing, and completely lacking in sex appeal.
Sex is better with people closer to your own body size, whatever that is, because then body size doesn’t get in the way.
You should add to your bullet list:
- Does their dick do what they tell it to?
Right after “Do they do what their dick tells them to? Lol. Very important, cause there is nothing sexier than a well trained penis.
Seriously though, I’m not sure why that’s always part of the equation other than that people seem to think it’s expected. But when you talk to women, their definitions of tall are subjective in the first place, and secondly, it’s not that important, if at all really, when you get down to the nitty gritty.
I suspect this is yet another thing actually being driven by men and male insecurity via Hollywood media and dating apps predominantly or completely designed by men. I mean, who put a height field input on dating apps in the first place? And why? Does the field require a numerical input or can you write, “I don’t care”, “irrelevant as long as you’re comfortable in your own skin and don’t try to undermine my comfort and in mine", or “within 4 inches either way of my height of 5’7"?
Height is an “issue” both sexes have been propagandized to think is more relevant than it is. Look at old photographs from before the advent of television. There was a wide variety in pairings. Nobody cared. Read 18th century literature and diaries. Height was rarely mentioned. It was never a deciding factor in whether or not someone was desirable. Nobody cared about that. They cared about what kind of living they could provide and what sort of character they had.
After dating a while, most people realize it’s all propaganda (even if subconsciously) and try to move past it. Yet media and dating description fields keep up the propaganda. We’re all poorer for it.
