Best part out of this is focusing on the fact that in order to be a pick me girl you have to be focused on men.

When you're not... Pick me goes away. Because you have no reason to concern yourself with how other women express their femininity.

Nor do you stress yourself out worrying about male fidelity. When you're okay being un-partnered, you don't waste your time on men who are unwilling to make that same commitment because you don't feel pressured into it.