Being in touch with one’s feelings and whining about them and having to deal with them is not the same thing. Yes, most women would like men to deal with their own shit instead of flinging it at our door. Whining about it falls into that last category.

As for the rest of your comment, you basically reiterated the reasons why I find your claim so hard to believe. Also ...

Previously, you said you were building multiple clubs. This last comment suggests the "multiple" part was in the past and that they had failed. You laid out a bunch of reasons, including blaming women for the failure of men’s clubs. Classy and whatever.

Then you said you were working on one for black boys and suggested it was struggling, again, because of women claiming it was sexist.

So, you basically just admitted what I was saying all along. It’s hard to build clubs and organizations. It takes time, dedication, money, and (often) support. To get ONE launched to sustainability and perpetuity is a Herculean effort for anyone. Anyone who’s ever actually done so or witnessed others go through the process knows this.

But hey, good luck with the boys' club you’re building. It’s a shame you felt the need to "pad" your resume to build up self esteem or whatever. It isn’t real. People can usually see through it pretty easily.