Basically what you're saying here is that although we need to make the behavior bar such that society is equitable for everyone, we can't do that work because ..... cancel culture hurts men's feelings?

Young boys should be corrected and allowed to make mistakes.

Who's being canceled as a child?

Seems to me you're conflating that correction with being canceled. Is it the requirement that boys and young men accept accountability for their actions and make amends that's the step too far?

If so, I doubt the sincerity of your post. Sounds like yet another attempt to dodge. A demand for yet another bye. A plea for a certain kind of charity that has yet to be given to anyone else, societally speaking.

And why are men so special? Tell us again?