As usual, I think your take is reductive, nonsensical, and problematic.
I can't get into it, I'm at work. But I'll say this....
If you men aren't satisfied with the job we women are doing raising your kids, let me invite you to either come pick them up, stop creating them, or shut the hell up.
Beggars can't be choosers.
You're begging us to provide you a legacy, prop up the population demographics so you white boys won't lose your margin of power, create workers to sustain industrialization which disenfranchised the value of women's labor to begin with, ensure you have someone to take care of you in your dotage, and even whinging about extinction.
And then there's nothing but pecking, heckling, degrading, marginalizing, denigrating, and stealing our lives and time on this planet.
And you all have a hot take on why men suck and are so unhappy, and it's always left at the feet of women because you can't look past your own noses on that one.
Come get your damn kids then. See if you can do better. You be the ones to sacrifice 20 years of your lives to raise a child. You do it then.