And yet, the only time men want to have these discussions is in feminist spaces about other concerns. It's a whataboutism, not an actual push for change or good faith discussion.

It's also certainly never a pledge to take leadership around said issue and develop meaningful action. There is the occasional attempt to labor dump though.

There's nothing in the world stopping men from discussing their concerns or pursuing avenues of meaningful actuon and redress. But what does their loneliness have to do with feminism? Most feminists are happily partnered and their partners are absolutely thriving in that partnership with a feminist.

Seems like feminism makes men extremely happy and fulfilled when they put partnership over domination.

That's an attitude choice.

It's men who choose to scapegoat women and feminists instead of fix their problems. It's men ago either choose to keep that funky constant competition, dominate or die, even if it kills you slowly mindset or partnership and reciprocity.

It's always been their choice and in their hands. It's just now, without that economic incentive, if you choose dominance and competition, you'll be doing it alone.

Women only choose that when they have no other option. Many of us would still rather live out in the hedgerow than live under that boot.