And most of that is performative.

Don't get me wrong, if gives me no pleasure to say it. And maybe it is even somewhat tone dead.

Basically what I'm getting at is that it seems too many prople want to hold on to many of the things that lead to where we are and we can't have it both ways.

Seems like you're taking it as an all or nothing thing though. I didn't say all people. I said too many.