And in a nutshell, this is why dating apps don't work and why most women aren't on them.

Attraction for the vast majority of women is whole package and it's entirely physical. All those things you mentioned and more. And even pheremones. You don't get hit with pheremones inducing attraction over an app either.

It's even hard for the average woman to find objectively good looking men attractive over an app. You can easily see acknowledge they're good looking, but there's no buzz of interest. Nope. No buzzing, no tingling, no perking, no piloerection, no mydriasis, no butterflies in the stomach, no headiness, no tensing, none of that.

Jack diddly squat. It's just a picture. No one hears AC/DC rocking out to "You Shook Me All Night Long" queing up in the back of their brain over a very generic picture that looks exactly like all the other thousands of very generic pictures on a small screen app that has now become yet another unwanted and unnecessary job for you to have to contend with and stress over.

These are not the balls one wants to find herself juggling. It's not an exciting prospect. It's just not.