And if having children wasn't punitive for women in a societal level, she'd realize that having a man isn't a pre-requisite for having children beyond that 5 minute tumbling fumbling stumbling.

If we didn't insist on coupling having children with romantic relationships, she'd realize she'd maybe do better anyway by pairing with a man to contractually co-parent a child. There are also men out there who want to be fathers who can't find a romantic mate.

Just saying. What she wants is a man. Otherwise she'd be exploring options.