And I am very very average in my likes and desires, romantically speaking. My perceptions are fairly typical too. Obviously, attractions are fairly unique to the individual (hands vs thighs vs hair sort of stuff), but how you respond to it and how you think about it is fairly typical I think.

Most of us are not weighing out your work record and financial status when we first meet you, I don't give a rat's ass what he podcast bros are telling you. We're wondering whether or not you're good in bed and drifting off into imaginings of caresses and quiet, tender moments.

Or were being repulsed by your behavior and lack of hygiene. Note again, this guy was dirty after being at work all day, so nobody is saying you have to be coiffed to the nines at all times. It was obvious though, that even though he was dirty he minds his presentstion, generally speaking. He wasn't a scrub.

It pretty much comes down to that for us women.

These snacky interactions are out there to be had. There's nothing standing in anyone's way but the choice to wear a mask and fret over all the wrong things over being open and inviting, keeping to the rhythm, stepping up into place for the dance.

I'm really glad you enjoyed reading this piece.

Tell the truth now. When you got to ' Hot. Damn.', did you do it right? Was it like "Hot [insert real stage beat here]. Dayum!'

If you didn't do it right, I'm gonna need you to go back and do it again. No cutting corners, you'll ruin the whole thing.

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