And here we have, laid out plain, the problem with the whole "women don't care about men's problems" argument.

How often do you see an article or discussion in men's lack of empathy for struggling men?

And nearly every one that is addressed to women is focused on guving these men sex and relationships.

Like sacrificing a woman to that man will magically solve all his issues of self loathing. Sure, he might not kill himself now, but only because he's turned that self loathing he feels onto her.

Awesome solution there.

And wonder upon wonders, these guys (authors) NEVER see that that's exactly what they're asking for.

Tell us all again who's callous and cruel. Lost track there, scorekeeping is hard.