Also, part of the problem here is that we ARE outside the traditional dating narrative. We're NOT doing things the way we used to.
I'm actually advocating we GO BACK to what worked. Yeah, it'll need a little adjustment to jive with modernity, but the basic premise needs to be more like what was.
Not catalog flipping through a dating app or randomly attempting hook ups with women in public like if you get the secret code sequence right, then the magic pussy vensing machine is yours for the taking.
That's what we've got now. In what universe do you think that's "traditional'???