Alpha ideology is bullshit regardless of whether it's applied to a man or a woman.

You realize, that by your metrics, other than not being interested in kink domination play, I am a in every respect a 'dominant' woman? A woman standing in her own authentic power.

I am no man's woman.

You 'alpha' chicks are still pandering to the attention and perversions of men.

A full woman doesn't need men eating out of the palm of her hand to validate herself. She's confident enough for interdependence, full expression, and not having to control her partner. She's cool with being a binary star, neither diminishing nor tolerating being diminished.

But you do you.

And yes, I'm extremely grateful the men who refused me did not waste my time or attempt to exploit / use me. I respect their choice because I'm confident enough to know that rejection doesn't say a goddamned thing about me.