Ahhh, but how can a man know if a woman makes the right choices if she never gets to make a decision that then gets tested for rightness?

How can a man lead well if he has no idea what the woman perceives as good leadership, or what eill inspire her to follow and continue to follow?

I think I've detected the fatal flaw on your narrative. Gender essentialist beliefs lead to insecurity, self doubt, isolation, and loneliness.

And it's obvious why.