Ah. I see. You've been on dating apps and fallen for Influencer propaganda.

These are grifters, my guy. They are not normal, average, everyday people out looking for love. They're selling you a story that validates your insecurities and getting very rich in the process because you've allowed your fears to run away with you and made yourself gullible.

They are not representative of women, they do not describe the desires and behavior of most women, they are not enlightening you to some secret matrix or whatever. They're snake oil salesmen and women making money off you feeking bad about yourself and convincing you to do things that separate you from meaningful connection because in the end, as I said before, they're underhanded and predatory.

You've for the right idea about one thing. There are some people you need to leave alone. But this is them. Male or female, these Influencer grifters are making you miserable. But theyre not real people. They're fake.

Get off the computer, go outside, and see for yourself. What you have come to believe is an illusion. It's not real.