Agree, in part.
I think it's a relevant conversation, but for women. Women need to realize where we are because not enough of us do.
And framing it as bear vs man highlights just how much men see us as prey when it comes to dating and relationships. If that's the norm, then expecting anything other than exploitation in some way when getting involved with them is ludicrous.
Men are showing us who they are. Time to take the rose colored glasses off and accept reality. Come what may.
As far as men go....there's nothing new under the sun here. Continuing to hope for fair play is just a waste of time. Hoping and begging for men to meet us in the middle hasn't yielded very many results. They're either incapable or they just don't want to.
Oh well. Time to move on.