Again, you're conflating. I merely pointed out that your use of the word "judge" might be deemed provocative by people who have been mistreated for being a single parent and that I might be beneficial to avoid charged language about a sensitive issue to avoid misunderstandings in the future.

In what universe is offering a dodge so you can avoid a situation or possibly save face the same as a person's attack on your character?

Go back and read what I said again without the chip on your shoulder. I actually agreed with you that people who don't want children shouldn't be pressured into dating people who have them and I clearly stated so.

Basically all I said was that you (universal) shouldn't assume that because someone expressed interest after you put a generic "no kids" banner up is trying to pressure or shame you. I stated some reasons why. They're just as likely to be seeking clarification.

Conflating seems to be a habit of yours you might want to look into.