Again, not necessarily. You know, accoeding to some First Nations origin myths, we've (at least some humab cultures) have been there before. It wasn't permanent. Nothing is.

Well, it sounds like if you don't want ro accept that option, your choice is to either chiose violent means of getting a match so you benefit regardless of how it harms the woman or women in general or admit that a large segment of the male population by the culture of manhood have become a problem and start doing something about it.

For all women. Not just the one you secure by 'gaming' whether she withers or not.