Again, initially, there's not much difference between men and women. The same dynamics apply.

But men are arguing for why they stay stuck there and never consider anything else important.

Also there's a difference between being attracted to beauty and objectification. Women are attracted to beauty/looks too. Especially initially.

But that first glance of appeal doesn't last beyond the moment.

Men are saying for them there is never anything more important.

Don't shoot the messenger, personally I think this is mostly Influencer and manosphere bullshit. But, it IS what they are saying, to women, speaking as experts, on behalf of all men.