Advancing oneself in life is hardly being boring.

You're missing out on the fact that she gaps in marriage were historically very common. The population is still roughly split 50/50 so there's not an absence of potential wives.

You're also missing the fact that historically, many people married multiple times in life because the death rate was so high. So while it's true that men have always lusted after virgins, it wasn't the end all be all. Sooner or later you have to be practical, or give up entirely.

Maybe men should consider lowering their standards.

Lastly, there are plenty of potential wives. The party scene is not as widespread as you seem to believe. If all you ever see are party girls, it's because you're partying too or lusting after that persona or representation. You're basically blaming women for not being what you think you want when you're clearly turned on by what they're offering. That's weird.

I'd suggest you either stop partying and look elsewhere for potential wives or accept the fact that you like party girls but I know such common sense will fall on deaf ears.