A golden cage is still a cage. It's reductive thinking, not simplistic thinking. If men can't get past the reductive thinking, they'll never get out of the cage. No one else can get them out, they can only open the door or show you where it is if we're thinking of the man box like the matrix or a holodeck.

Men have to be the ones to walk through, and you won't ever feel safe doing so. It's a leap of faith, just like it was with the woman box we had to break free of.

Come on. Ain't you tired? Don't you think you deserve a turn to be free for authentic selves and not have to perform all the damn time?

It only takes 20 seconds of courage to make up your mind once and for all and walk through the door. The rest will follow.