2) generally no. That's only happened to me once and she was quite aggressive about it, almost manish.

For me at least, it really does come down to the pushiness of it, the violent language selection, and the public exposure to humiliation. Take those charaxteriatics off the table and you're fine.

3) Apparently they do, as that's exactly what Simon's article and the many comments from.men that inspired it are about in the first place. And we do it because we're not getting what we need from men. Most of us don't feel sexual validation by male attention. Because of that aggression and manner they go about it, we feel dehumanized and used.
What we generally get from men is not a pleasant experience.

So I return to, if that's what men want and need to feel sexually confident, turn to each other for that.