100% correct except that beautiful women don't get that guy either.

That guy, just doesn't exist. How could he? When ultimately it always comes down to ideas of ownership and entitlement to your body based on belief of superiority? And defining himself by being NOT what you are but also setting hinself in opposition to the things you are?

Men can call that love and say it's "complementary" but at some point it's gonna start feeling like a boot on your neck.

Always does.